Reading List June 28, 2013

Wow, way to put yourself out on the line, Wal-Mart!

NC jobless losing federal compensation Sunday: 'They are really putting the gun to your head now.'
So what are the long-term unemployed supposed to do? If you don't have money, you can't go to school to learn new ones. You can't eat or have a place to live. What kind of future are you supposed to have?

This is wonderful and may it be be only the first in a never-ending series of celebrations.

It's All The Same In The End

Once again I apologize on behalf of my state: Congressman Wants Public Schools To Teach Gender Stereotypes ‘At A Very Early Age’

In a speech defending his support of the Defense of Marriage Act, Gingrey has this to say about parenting and gender roles:

GINGREY: You know, maybe part of the problem is we need to go back into the schools at a very early age, maybe at the grade school level, and have a class for the young girls and have a class for the young boys and say, you know, this is what’s important. This is what a father does that is maybe a little different, maybe a little bit better than the talents that a mom has in a certain area. And the same thing for the young girls, that, you know,this is what a mom does, and this is what is important from the standpoint of that union which we call marriage.”

 Right. Yes, we must lock in those rigid gender roles at an early age or who knows what will happen.

I grew up in a fairly traditional family. I was an only child, I had a mother and a father, went to church every Sunday, the whole nine yards. Am I thankful I had two parents? Yes, absolutely. I wasn't privy to the behind-the-scenes conversations but I know there where times when one of my parents probably stopped the other from strangling me over some stupid stuff I had done. That's what parents do, they bring different views, different expectations, different ways of doing things to the parenting table and when it's all said and done, hopefully they have raised a child to successful adulthood, however that's defined. It has nothing to do with gender roles and everything to do with what sort of people those parents are.

But let's widen the discussion. Yes, the ideal is two people raising a child, if only for logistical and financial reasons but that's not the only type of family out there. Single parents of either sex can raise a child. So can grandparents or other members of the extended family. If we really want to support families, stop spending time beating the dead horse of a 1950's ideal that never really existed. Support healthcare, support education, support women getting equal pay. Support quality daycare. Those are actions that will help families.

It's time we get past our narrow definition of what families look like. Whether there's one parent or two, whether opposite sex couple or same sex, extended family or nuclear, the end goal is the same and that is to raise a child with love and care. The end.

Reading List June 5, 2013

As Vandals Deface U.S. Parks, Some Point to Online Show-Offs
Yes, because I want to go view the majesty of nature and see a bunch of damned tagging.

Support Grows to Let Cybertheft Victims 'Hack Back'
Sounds great on Twitter, not so great in reality. Until we are able to track down specifically who is doing the hacking, the chances of hitting someone who wasn't involved are too high. There's also a one-sided business angle here, what's to stop something like the MPAA etc from going after individuals suspected of illegal downloads? Where are the protections against mis-use?

GOP: RAPE IS JUST NATURE’S WAY OF KEEPING WOMEN OUT OF MILITARY
Saxby Chambliss (R-GA):

The young folks coming in to each of your services are anywhere from 17 to 22 or 23. Gee whiz, the hormone level created by nature sets in place the possibility for these types of things to occur. So we’ve got to be very careful how we address it on our side.

Yes, I'm probably just as thrilled about his retirement as he is, just for completely different reasons.

Our Driven Elite (Trivial and Time-Wasting)
Substitute anything in the rural/urban, rich/poor/middle class divide. In other words, different people have different wants and needs! <sarcasm> OMG! Call the Media! Film at 11:00! </sarcasm>

Pressure Grows to Create Drugs for ‘Superbugs’
This is scary stuff!

Is Barefoot-Style Running Best? New Studies Cast Doubt
I'm not a runner by any means. In fact, the only way to get would to run would involve zombies chasing me; but I love those bare-foot shoes. For someone who hates wearing shoes as much as I do, they are almost as comfortable as going shoe-less. Even if they are ugly as homemade sin.